Views from an Adult

Adult dating is not like teenage dating. Teenage dating is full of uncertainty. Teenagers say they love each other all the time, yet they are not surprised or even very bothered when they split up the next week. They want to go out with the person that looks the most like their favourite celebrity.Adult dating is very different. When teenagers split up, they always seem to find another partner within the next few weeks. Teenagers have a constant supply of prospective partners, because they are surrounded by so many at school, college or university. They don't expect to hold a partner for more than a year, and enjoy writing to teen magazines saying that they have had their heart broken -winning £10 for the best letter. The thing with adult dating is that they don't have access to as many prospective people. They also don't have the time to waste looking for the perfect partner. By the time you're thirty and still single, then you want a partner sharpish. If you want to havechildren then you have to hurry up even more. Adult dating is like a game, and if it's played right then you get a proposal.Everyone wants one. Everyone wants a loyal, long-time partner, and everyone would like to settle down. Settling down requires someone else to settle down with, as does havingchildren. So whats the answer? How do you become a pro at adult dating, and bag yourself a loyal, long-term partner to get the proposal from?Firstly, you need to stop thinking that it is like the dating you did when you were a teenager. It is not. Teenage dating is immature, unreal, uneducated, and is not a good thing to bast your adult dating life on. Many single adults consider teenagers to be the dating experts. If a teenager has had 14 partners by the time they're 16, then they're an expert right? Wrong. They are either a slut to have had that many partners, or they are exceptionally bad at dating and cant hold onto any of them. This is why teenage dating techniques should never be incorporated into adult life.Adult dating is a lot more complicated. First of all you have to work out how to fit your date into your busy life. It's not like school - you don't have afree lesson where you can kiss your date behind the bike sheds. In reality, you are squeezing them in between meetings and visiting your mother. Adult dating is well worth the effort though. If you succeed at teenage dating, then you get someone to show off to your mates at the skate park. If you succeed at adult dating then you get a husband or a wife. A partner for ever. Someone to share your life with, and someone to have your children with.