Views from an Adult

Last week on Saturday night,I was out with my boyfriend,at a pub.This was a normal Saturday night for us. I was at our table and my partner went to get us some drinks.My partner was now talking to a couple and he waved out to me asking me to come over and join them.I went over and my BF introduced me to a couple.The guy's name was Chris and he was my BF's classmate from University. Christhen waved out to another couple and asked us both to move to the table where they were seated. So far things seemed straight forward. Looked like my BF had met his friend Chris, who was out with his partner and another couple.

Chris introduced me to the woman sitting at the table and said she was his wife Jessica. The guy who was with Jessica, and the woman who was with Chris, were married too.So now we had Chris and Jessica who were a married couple and another couple sitting at the table. All 6 of us decided to sit together.So they moved, in order to accommodate us as well.

Then we started talking and they seemed like a fun group. We gelled easily.I was having fun with these new friends I had made.Then all of a sudden, Chris' wife Jessica asked us if we were swingers. I almost choked on my drink.ha! It just seemed out of the blue and sudden. We had known each other for about 20 mins and this was a rather odd question.A little too personal I thought.

My BF then clarified that we were not. Jessica then asked us if we would like to experiment. Wait a minute, were these guys swingers? This was getting interesting. I then decided to ask them .As it turned out, they were. I had known swingers, but none of them were married. It was fascinating to me that in spite of loving someone with one's heart and soul, one could share the partner's body with another person with so much ease.

I then told Jessica we were unlikely to experiment, but wanted to ask everyone at the table a few questions. I was not a swinger , but always had certain things I did not understand about this lifestyle choice. Jessica said she did adore the fact that I was open to talking about it, as most people who were not swingers ridiculed this lifestyle choice.

Chris then jumped into the conversation and asked me why I had not spoken to my BF about these questions I had. I was confused. How could my BF know? Then Chris told said something that stunned me. He said, "Justin (My BF) and I started off experimenting with this lifestyle in college and I met Jessica then.Did he not tell you?'". I then turned to Justin .The look on his face was one I could not describe in a 1000 words!